tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2780506856626441160.post1402241331918157880..comments2023-08-04T21:37:16.987-07:00Comments on (Gay) Mormon Guy: You Must Live an Awesome, Interesting LifeDavidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03552740645279057549noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2780506856626441160.post-28702371783918099502014-04-21T18:36:24.269-07:002014-04-21T18:36:24.269-07:00There's so much to think about. We have a gre...There's so much to think about. We have a great deal of capacity to influence our fellowmen, but I agree with the comment made about not "berating yourself or missing the supposed to's" <br /><br />This blog and a great many parts of your character constitute your interesting life... there is an obligation to lift people, as you so much desire to do. Embrace it! Don't regret it.. though there's a great deal of complication to go with the "interesting". Tonight I'm admonishing myself as well. Capacity is a unique burden to carry, but the Lord will teach us how to accomplish beautiful things to further his Kingdom and we will almost inadvertently grow to become like Him. :)Alannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08413993994528608729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2780506856626441160.post-80990938812726430022014-03-22T22:38:42.557-07:002014-03-22T22:38:42.557-07:00I've spent so many nights thinking about my mi...I've spent so many nights thinking about my missed opportunities. Sometimes I feel prompted to leave comments on blogs like this one, but after I do wonder if it was a mistake and if I just sound like a crazy person. Sometimes I feel prompted to give money to homeless people, but I'm so shy I can't do it. And then there are times when I look back at my life and know that I really did miss an opportunity, and I'm determined to make less of those mistakes now. A friend taught me a new little tip to help with this, at least I feel that it helps me. I ask that Heavenly Father remove all fear, shame and doubt. Then I asked to be filled with his light and love(sometimes I ask for knowledge or guidance too). Then I focus and ask him a the question I need an answer to. <br /><br />I also believe that if we don't learn what we came down here to learn we will keep ending up in the same situation until we do learn. Not always comforting, but I guess it helps in some ways. I'm definitely trying to learn my lessons now so I don't have to make a repeat of my experiences. <br /><br />P.S. You must have a pretty amazing and interesting life. After all look at all the readers that come to your blog to read about it :).Tricia S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13508173213128090062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2780506856626441160.post-75403556827434168282014-03-14T20:59:47.635-07:002014-03-14T20:59:47.635-07:00I appreciate reading this post. I constantly need ...I appreciate reading this post. I constantly need reminding to act upon opportunities which are placed before me (I'm shy and am trying to break the habit. I also really needed to read Esther's comment because I see the shift from 'should do' to 'opportunities to do' as an integral one that will ensure we don't beat ourselves up unnecessarily. Thank you both for posting and to the redhead for being at the pool to inspire this conversation. Fieonahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898906206270795620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2780506856626441160.post-74699475169960665652014-03-03T13:45:19.638-08:002014-03-03T13:45:19.638-08:00Regarding your thoughts about wondering whether yo...Regarding your thoughts about wondering whether you're supposed to do something -- I do that, too. Often I feel like I second guess myself.<br /><br />I really liked your comments here about living an interesting life and I enjoyed listening to your contemplation about what makes a life different or more interesting than someone else's.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing. It gave a lot to think about in a good way.Lucashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06095481860782133504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2780506856626441160.post-88822192879266046852014-02-28T20:25:50.195-08:002014-02-28T20:25:50.195-08:00I used to think about what I was "supposed&qu...I used to think about what I was "supposed" to do a lot. It made me feel like a constant failure because 1. I was never 100% certain of what I was "supposed" to do, 2. Every time I didn't do what I thought I might be "supposed" to do, I assumed that I had let God down and missed a chance to change someone's life or something similarly dire and 3. I would berate myself for being so incapable and that's just never helpful. Eventually I had a paradigm shift. Instead of looking at life events as "supposed to's" I looked at them as opportunities given to me to see what I could make out of them. I still miss opportunities, but it's ok to try again the next time one comes around. Maybe there was an opportunity to talk to the redhead and maybe something good would have come out of it. Maybe not. You could have done it, but you didn't, for reasons that make sense. It's ok to not stress about it. I don't know if you were "supposed" to write about this experience, but you did and I'm glad I got to read it. It was uplifting to at least 1 person.Esther Michelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13444880399531561703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2780506856626441160.post-72855490946739057032014-02-28T15:20:53.119-08:002014-02-28T15:20:53.119-08:00Perhaps we can't live our lives on what we are...Perhaps we can't live our lives on what we are "suppose to" do. W can't live it on shoulds. Partly because that's poor motivation, and partly because often we don't know what we should do. How then do with live? Out of love and trust? What should that look like... back to shoulds. I don't know the answers... should I?yetihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11063558865333842640noreply@blogger.com